Problems are not a prerequisite for greater resonance. Someone asked the other day ‘Would you still have purpose if all the problems your clients faced just disappeared’ and I thought about this and responded with the above.
When I started my self development and transformation journey, I was not in a good place, I had oodles of issues. So on one hand I focused on healing my trauma and ideas around self worth. But on the other hand, I started the incredible process of journeying within, of enriching my relationship with myself, of understanding how I flow and then getting to level up more and more with respect to this.
I wish I had fostered this desire for greater resonance before I had no choice but to face my demons. But for my soul’s lessons in this life, I understand that this needed to be my path and, I know that my receptivity to transformation was not open until I’d gone through a passage of time and experience.
But this problem origin story does not need to be the norm and it is not necessary for everyone.
It's not going to be the course for every single person destined to come across your path who is available to/could be tremendously elevated with the gifts you hold within.
This is a big reason why, with home schooling our 5 and 7 year old, we will be weaving self development, mindset hacking and holistic modalities into our daily studies with more intention.
It’s also why I talk about frequency, inner cycles, energy, somatic work, polarity, the use of crystals and oils with most people I meet - when I get the intuitive nudge to do so, not based on whether they appear to need to overcome something.
No-one can avoid trauma (your soul will literally seek it out for growth) and shadow, hardship, tests and confusing redirections are an essential aspect of human life. But -
You don't actually need to wait for this in others or yourself before allowing your purpose to impact the world.
Regardless of what your purpose is - there will be a balance between solving as well as providing. Subtraction and addition.
What you add to the story is definitely the sweet spot.
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