Everyone is Just as Self Obsessed as You Are

Dance like no-one is watching because changes are - they aren’t!⁠⠀

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Out of the many many many many many mindset, spiritual and self development books on my bookshelf, there are a fraction of fictional ones. And they are serious hard hitting books except for two deliciously trashy ones. One about body snatching aliens and, the other about a group of housemates who go through various epiphanies and realisations.⁠⠀

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The later came for free with a Spanish Cosmopolitan magazine, I think I stole it from my sister but I swear - it's got some juicy truths in it.⁠ We actually ended up talking about it at dinner the other day and both agreed that it remains a must read 😂⁠⠀

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And there's this one part where two of the characters are about to go to a party and one is worried about what others will think of her. So in response, her friend says something like (and I will butcher this quote):⁠⠀

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"Everyone is just as self-obsessed as you are. Spending their time focusing on what other think of them that they have no time to think of you."⁠⠀

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It's kinda rude but I dare say also true in most instances.⁠⠀

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Most people are too self-critical to notice you doing something that could be critiqued. And even if they do - so what? What's the worst thing that could happen? They act like a douche and you realise that they're someone that no longer gets to enjoy your amazing company?⁠⠀

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Even if the few do say something, it's inevitably still about them, their triggers, their emotions and their experiences - still not even about you.⁠⠀

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So it all comes back to everyone being too self obsessed to be the thing that you should EVER choose to stop you dancing and throwing yourself into the fray.⁠

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