Changing a Negative View
When things, people or events start making you second guess your place or your worth - it’s time to take a step back and regroup.
I will always see all sides and possibilities of a story. I can come up with the most bizarre rationale excuses for why people have done a good many things and I do like to remind myself and others that we don’t always know people’s intentions, their meaning behind things and their why. It could completely change our perspective on things if we did.
But, either way, sometimes you get hurt. Sometimes you get angry. Sometimes you feel like things should have played out differently - regardless of the reasons.
At times like this it’s important to remember that EVERYTHING happens exactly as it should. And all current imperfect moments with people, events, experiences, awakenings, learnings and more - are writing tomorrow’s future and happening as flawed or amazing or amazingly flawed as they are for a reason.
What will be, will be.
What is, is.
What was cannot be changed.
What and who you are is everything.
I believe we each have an infinite number of possibilities and adventures in front of us - we choose which path to follow tho. WE are the deciding factor, not all the noise around us.
If things had not happened and we had not reacted as we did in the past - we would not be where we are at this point in time.
And if you are on the pathway to self discovery or you are finally understanding and living into your purpose - I’m guessing you wouldn’t want ANYTHING - good or bad from the past (including your own actions) to have changed to then push you in a different direction from the here and now.
YOU are the one that chooses the next steps. Not the things or the people moving around you. It’s all you babe.
So if things DO get to you, choose to see them as a learning experience, or an opportunity to dive deeper within, or the chance to work through being triggered or just a bigger challenge to remember that we don’t know everyone’s else’s view on the world. We can only know our own.
And what a beautiful powerful view that is.
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