Fear
Fear is a funny thing and it affects everyone differently.
At the moment, I feel like I am on the precipice, I feel the winds of change swirling all around me and I am letting them brush away more and more layers to unveil who I am at my core and, the chaos of that to my tribe and to those I get to connect with online.
Sometimes I worry about what people will think of the real me - because I’m hardly perfect.
Sometimes I feel fear arise when I’m challenging myself to step out of my comfort zone and present content in new spaces with new audiences.
Sometimes I get concerned that I’ll get backlash from friends or family for saying this or that when I am just speaking my truth.
Sometimes I doubt that I’ll reach corporate clients in the casual, friendly unassuming way I generally speak.
But then, I remind myself that all my most soul rewarding elevating accomplishments have been when I’ve stepped into my flawed unfiltered self and, just put myself out there.
Plus - I strongly feel that there would no longer be any point to any of it if I had to pretend to be someone I’m not.
Too often I see people feeling as though the next level requires concealment of themselves and their flaws rather than a deeper proclamation of that.
They add layer upon layers to cover what they sound like, how they act, what they think and the person they truly are.
Their posts go from being rough with mistakes and character to being ghost written by Harvard professors (or just lifted).
Their casual, approachable manner transforms into awkward poses and fake smiles.
And the persona they adopt for their business and online presence becomes a complete contradiction to who they are in the same moment in real life.
This is not change or up levelling - this is when they have chosen to let fear push them down rather than deciding to ride the wave and break out on top. This is when they have chosen to believe that receiving elevation should be at the cost of being themselves.
Fear is ok and fear can be a good thing.
But you get to choose - are you going to let fear crush who you are or are you going to let it propel you into owning who you are and your amazing uniqueness? Because it’s a simple choice in the end - one way or the other and if you are deciding to bury yourself, you’ve chosen wrong.
Who you are - with your faults, your flaws, your mistakes, your roughness, your character and your personality … THAT is what could have or will make the next level and that is what is key to your entire elevation.
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